Love spell casting is something people turn to when their heart is calling out for someone. Whether you’re missing an ex, hoping to attract someone new, or wanting a deeper bond with your current partner, love spells can help you focus your energy and send out your wishes in a powerful way.
I’ve guided many beginners through their first spells, and what I always say is this: it’s not about being perfect or doing everything like in the movies. It’s about your intention, your heart, and doing each step with care.
If you’ve ever wondered how to cast a love spell that actually works, this guide will take you through everything you need to know—from what love spells are, who should cast them, the best time to do them, and how to perform the most searched-for spells like “get your ex back” and “obsession love spells.”
Let’s start at the beginning.
What Is a Love Spell?
A love spell is a focused way to send your feelings and desires into the world, asking for love in return. People often think of love spells as something strange or complicated, but they’re really just rituals that use intention, words, and natural items like candles, herbs, or photos.
Some spells ask for love to return. Others bring new love into your life. Some are made to deepen feelings, or even spark obsession and passion.
What matters most in any spell is your emotion. If your heart is truly in it, and you follow the steps calmly, the results can surprise you.
Who Can Cast a Love Spell?
Anyone can cast a love spell. You don’t need to be born into a special family or have any magical titles. I’ve taught people as young as 18 and as old as 70 to cast their first spell. The only thing that matters is your intention.
If your feelings are real and your wish comes from the heart—not from anger, fear, or pressure—then you’re ready.
Before casting, sit with yourself for a moment. Ask yourself:
- Do I truly want this person in my life?
- Is my heart ready to receive love?
- Am I open to the outcome—even if it takes time?
If you feel peace inside, then you’re in the right state to begin.
When Is the Best Time to Cast a Love Spell?
Timing is important. You can cast spells anytime, but certain moments give your spell extra strength.
Here are the best times to do it:
1. During the Full Moon
The full moon brings strong energy for attraction, reunion, and commitment. If you’re doing a spell to get your ex back or to draw someone in deeply, aim for a full moon night.
2. On Fridays
Friday is ruled by Venus, the planet of love. It’s the best day to cast spells related to romance, passion, and connection.
3. At Night
Love spells are best done at night when things are quiet. Your thoughts are clearer and the world is calmer.
Even if you can’t match these times exactly, that’s okay. Just choose a time when you won’t be distracted or rushed.
Popular Love Spells You Can Cast at Home as a Beginner
Let’s go deeper into some of the most searched love spells that beginners ask me about. I’ll show you how to do them with full instructions, ingredients, and chants. These spells are simple but powerful when done right.
Spell to Get Your Ex Back
This is the most common spell people want to try. Whether you had a breakup or you just drifted apart, this spell focuses on bringing your ex’s heart back to yours.
What You’ll Need:
- A red candle
- A photo of your ex (or their full name written on paper)
- A piece of string
- A match
- A quiet space
How to Do It:
Sit alone in a room where you feel safe and calm. Place the photo or name in front of the candle. Tie the string in a loose circle and place it around the candle and the paper or photo.
Now light the candle and focus on a happy memory with your ex. Try to feel love in your chest—not sadness.
Speak this chant three times:
“Come back to me with open heart,
No longer shall we be apart.
With this flame, I call to you,
Return with love that’s pure and true.”
Let the candle burn for at least 15 minutes. Then blow it out gently. You can repeat this spell for three nights in a row. You can also use a love binding spell to tie your partner to you after getting back together so that he or she never leaves you again.
Obsession Love Spell
This spell is made to make someone think about you constantly. It’s strong, so use it only when your heart truly wants them. I suggest doing this if you’re ready for deep attention and closeness.
What You’ll Need:
- A small mirror
- Red lipstick
- Your own photo
- Perfume you wear often
How to Do It:
Write the person’s name on the mirror with red lipstick. Place your photo beside it. Spray the perfume lightly on both the mirror and photo.
Now, look into the mirror and say:
“(Name), see me when you sleep,
In your thoughts, I run so deep.
Every hour, night and day,
Let your love not drift away.”
Wrap the mirror and photo in a red cloth or paper and hide it under your pillow for 7 nights. During this time, keep your thoughts focused on your love for this person—not fear or doubt.
Attraction Love Spell (To Pull Someone New In)
Maybe you don’t have a specific person yet. You just want to attract someone loving, kind, and real into your life.
This spell is gentle, warm, and perfect for beginners.
What You’ll Need:
- A pink candle
- A rose (or dried rose petals)
- A small bowl of sugar
- A piece of paper
- A pen
How to Do It:
Write down the kind of love you want. Be clear. You can say: “someone who loves me deeply,” or “a kind person who respects me.”
Place the sugar in a circle around the candle. Sprinkle the rose petals on top. Light the candle and say:
“Love that’s true, come to me,
With open heart, so I may see.
Bring a soul both kind and free,
Let new love now walk toward me.”
Keep the paper under your pillow or in your drawer. Be open to meeting someone new, even in surprising ways.
How to Make Any Love Spell Work Better
Spells are not just about the steps. How you feel matters the most. If you’re worried or angry while doing a spell, the energy gets messy. Before you cast any spell, take a few deep breaths.
Here are a few tips to help you:
- Clean your space. A clean room brings clear energy.
- Light incense or play soft music if it helps you focus.
- Close your eyes and imagine the love you want—what it feels like, not just what it looks like.
- Be patient. Some spells work in days. Others take weeks.
And most of all, let go once it’s done. Don’t chase. Don’t beg. Trust that your message was heard.
Conclusion
Casting a love spell isn’t about control or tricks. It’s about speaking from your heart and asking the universe to listen. Whether you want your ex back, spark deep obsession, or attract new love, each spell works when your feelings are clear and your spirit is calm.
The best love spells are simple, honest, and done with care. You don’t need rare ingredients or long chants. You just need your voice, your hands, and a quiet space where love can grow.
So if your heart is ready, pick the spell that fits your need. Light the candle, say the words, and open the door to what love may bring.